THE OBESE TO PEACE METHOD

You know how to start. Why is it so hard to keep going?

Coree Silvera and Kelly hiking together in Arizona.

You may already know how to lose weight. You may have done it before. But knowing what to eat or how to work out does not explain why you can still end up fighting with your body or starting over again.

I thought the problem was food, weight, fitness, or discipline. Those things mattered, but so did how I saw myself, how other people responded to me, and what I believed would finally be different if my body changed.

The Obese to Peace Method helps you understand those connections so you can stop answering every struggle with more rules, more discipline, or another restart.

Knowing what to do is not always the part that is missing.

Food and fitness plans can be useful. They can give you information, structure, and clear steps to follow. But if something else is getting in the way, knowing the plan better or trying harder may not solve it.

Before you decide what you need to do differently, it helps to understand what the problem really is.

More effort is not always the missing piece.

The same struggle can have very different things behind it.

Sometimes you need better information. Sometimes the plan does not fit your life. Sometimes stress, exhaustion, ADHD, grief, pain, habits, your environment, or the role food or fitness has taken on are part of what keeps getting in the way.

Obese to Peace helps you figure out what needs your attention instead of assuming the answer is always another plan, more discipline, or another fresh start.

Different problems need different answers.

What Obese to Peace is

The Obese to Peace Method is for women who want change in their weight, health, fitness, or life but are tired of starting over.

Food matters. Fitness matters. What you do matters. But those things do not always explain why something keeps getting in the way or why the same struggles keep coming back.

Obese to Peace looks at the bigger picture instead of reducing every problem to discipline. It helps you understand what may be contributing to the struggle so you can stop putting all your effort into answers that do not fit the problem.

The point is not to keep analyzing yourself. It is to understand what is getting in the way so you can decide what needs to change.

Chubby Chicks Fitness members hiking together in Arizona.

Women came for a walk. A lot more happened.

In 2009, I weighed more than 325 pounds and wanted to get active. I looked for a fitness group where I could show up without getting in shape first. I could not find one that fit me, so I created Chubby Chicks Fitness.

What began with women walking together grew into more than 1,500 hikes. We got outside, laughed, made friends, got stronger, and tried things we had not thought we could do. I was part of that experience too. I was learning what my body could do and how much fitness could add to my own life.

I know fitness can change a life because it changed mine. I also know that losing weight, getting stronger, and doing things I once could not do did not answer every question I had about my body or why I kept starting over. The Obese to Peace Method came from trying to understand what food and fitness alone could not explain.

This is not another plan for following the rules better.

The Obese to Peace Method is not a diet, workout program, habit system, motivational reset, therapy, or generic self-love message. It will not tell you that weight loss is wrong, ask you to pretend appearance does not matter, or decide that trauma, hormones, ADHD, or your nervous system explains everything.

Food, fitness, health, stress, circumstances, support, and your choices can all matter. The Method does not force every woman into the same explanation or hand you another list of rules and call it the answer.

Some problems need qualified medical, nutrition, or mental-health care. Obese to Peace is not a replacement for that care.

Start with the tools available now.

The Starting Over Bundle gives you two self-paced tools to look more closely at the patterns that keep repeating and figure out what needs your attention next. It is one practical way to use The Obese to Peace Method now, privately and at your own pace.

Want the full Obese to Peace course?

There’s a lot more to Obese to Peace than I can fit on this page. I’m putting the Method I wish I’d had years ago, the one I had to learn by living it, into a course you can work through on your own time. If you want to be there when the course opens, join the waitlist and I’ll make sure you hear first.